REASON WHY MANY OF US MAKE FORCEFUL EFFORT IN RELATIONSHIP

This is because, we don't  demand assertion or claim our own experience. We discuss about other people rather than say how we feel so we must change the way we interact. say the word "I" or  "me" more often say how we feel rather than what other people are doing, Acknowledge your own feeling and make them know to the world it will help establish boundaries and help you feel more empowered and complete with yourself⚫
 

conflict

            WHY WE STRUGGLE IN OUR RELATIONSHIP

• Every relationship go through a struggle, but only strong relationship get through it.
• Conflict became ordinary facets of our partnering.
• tendency is to blame our partner or yourself as you spiral down disappointment and frustration.  
• Most of us are not yet ready to accept  and relate to these point of different between who our partner is, and our picture of our we want or need - so struggle begins